Letting children be children in our achievement oriented society” – Dr. William Crain
I have recently started reading Reclaiming Childhood, by Dr. William Crain, a developmental psychologist and social activist. Although I am still in the first half of the book, I felt I had to share what I’ve learned so far from the very insightful Dr. Crain. In his book, Dr. Crain offers his readers a refreshing and honest approach to child development. An approach that can be identified as the “child-centered approach”. Personally, for me this book is an extension from what I’ve learned during my early-childhood education degree as well as what I continue to learn at OISE…..Play and exploration aremore important than you think, especially when it comes to a child’s academic success and overall well-being. Ideally, parents or caregivers should allow children to independently explore and play with their surroundings, as they stand off in the sidelines for moral support.
“The child-centered philosophy, then, holds that we help children learn by respecting their own ways of learning…Thus, we should bring the baby and toddler into contact with a world in all its richness and then give the child a chance to explore what is most interesting to her. Instead of trying to assist or direct the child’s investigations, we should give the child a chance to learn on her own” Reclaiming Childhood, (p.27)
As I mentioned above, I have only began reading Reclaiming Childhood, but I look forward to the chapters ahead and to sharing what I learn with all of you!
I leave you all with a challenge, especially to those who have young children at home…take a walk with your child (grandchild, niece or nephew), however this time the child is unknowingly in-charge. Follow the child’s lead, if he or she wants to stop and look at a leaf or bug stop with them and don’t bombard them with information let them ask you questions if he or she has any. Remember to take your time, don’t rush the child, follow the child’s lead, and make sure you leave plenty of time of exploration (give your self double the time it would normally take you)!
Once you have tried this outside, trying letting you child have the same type of exploratory play within the home.
By doing this challenge you are allowing your child to explore and interact with things that are of interest to them, making their own sense of the world around them.
I would love to hear your feedback on how this challenge worked for you, or any questions or comments you may have about play, parent-engagement, or education. If you are unable to comment on my blog page feel free to visit me on twitter, @alyshiamarli I am also in the process of creating a Facebook page – this way we can all communicate with each other 🙂
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